1 - Be a reader. Read what other people are writing or instagramming.
2 - Comment thoughtfully. Be sure to reference something that you got from their post. This is the time to focus on them and be genuine.
3 - Invite the other person to check out your blog/website/Instagram. Be sure to mention something that they may be interested in.
4 - Be patient. Developing online friendships takes a lot of time and effort. There's no telling who you may befriend. I've got online friendships that have lasted years.
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